It really is hard, it's not what mama's do, turning their kids out. But when addiction is active, taking them in just brings the problem into your safe zone, your place of peace and turns your home into a war zone, that's how it was with my son.
They have other options, good options, that are there when they are ready to make the move to get sober. They need to make the move for themselves, not to appease us or to gain entrance to our homes, but for their own health and mental stability.
Today when I say a prayer for my son, I will add a special prayer for your son too and for all the sons and daughters here. I believe that God loves ALL his children, even the sick and addicted.
I hope you find some peace today, or something that makes your heart smile.
Hugs