Ultimately, it's up to you to determine how serious of a problem alcohol is but if you're feeling a need to drink or have cravings to drink alcohol every day then I say do away with it. Why not? It seems you're already wondering and people without a problem don't wonder if they have one. I'm not married but I think spouses should support each other in making healthy changes. I questioned if people would like me the same without drinking and the underlying issue that triggered this concern was low self esteem. Ironically, everybody likes me more now and I believe it is directly related to the fact that I like myself more. Good luck to you!