Originally Posted by
Thumpalumpacus 
Promised support is often not delivered in the form we need. Our loved ones don't necessarily know what we need and how it should be done.
That's what I'm realizing this time around and am thankful for a friend who gets it and is willing to have a dialogue with me in addition to the support here. I need to find the way over time to also be able to have some kind of dialogue with my husband on this front.