Originally Posted by
caretaker88 
Answers:
1. Alcoholism is a disease with no cure and the only treatment is abstinence. Remember, you didn't cause it, you can't control it and you can't cure it. It has nothing to do with you.
2. Of course she will try to win you back! You made her feel secure, because you were the only stable thing in her life!
You seem to be happy in your new relationship. Why would you want to invite the chaos back into your life?
Thank you for help! Honestly, I do not want the chaos. I meant what I said that I want her to be happy even without me. I'm just not understand why she won't just go out and find another man. Why try to come back to me? I've moved on and I want her to do the same.