A little clarification:
Second marriage for us both. I'm a very young 70 and she's 59. Married 4 years but had been BF-GF for 4 years previous. She always was a drinker, but more like a "good time charlie" drinker rather than a drink to get blotto drinker.
I always was a moderate drinker and rarely got even buzzed. Stopped all alcohol two years ago and began health regimen - lost 40 pounds - after I noticed how old and fat some of my hunting buddies were. I accept that this may have made me less tolerant of her drinking. But one thing worse than one drunk is a drunken couple.
Last edited by Rev 3:16; 02-09-2016 at 10:03 AM.
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