Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
I'd stop ALL communication with him from here on out unless it's something like, "I'm in the hospital and will not be able to bring the kids this weekend." Apart from that, communicate only with his lawyer. Everything his lawyer does for him will be billed to him.
You have one other option, if it ever comes to that. NH will issue a protective order based on harassment, defined as (among other things): "(b) Makes repeated communications at extremely inconvenient hours or in offensively coarse language with a purpose to annoy or alarm another." So keep documenting those communications. If he goes way over the top, you might qualify for that protective order.
Just something to keep in mind. Document EVERYTHING.
The billing and my sanity is why I will only communicate with his lawyer. Exactly my plan!
And bc I texted him a lot yesterday he texted back (a lot too) and told me I was "harassing" him... I wasn't, but I freaked out that he was twisting facts and accusing me of doing what HE does...
Sigh...
No more communicating for me with him. At all.
Thank you all again!