Originally Posted by
Nic233 
Yes I think I might end up with a bit of a tummy bug next weekend lol!!! It's just easier isn't it.
Wish I had the guts to tell the truth but I can't. Maybe one day when I'm comfortable with not drinking I'll be able to say I'm a non- drinker with confidence.... Xxx thanks X.
It's a tough situation to be in but I think with practice it will be easier. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing for now- if that means making something up like a cold, headache, or maybe saying you are on antibiotics, you could do that. Or you could just say "I' think I'll just have a soda for now" when the first person offers. In the end, I don't think anyone would harp on you for not drinking, especially if they are self absorbed in their own intoxication.
Ugh, it's tough. I hope you can find a way to get through this without being too stressed out about it. Good luck and just remember that it is more prevalent in your head, and that others may not even have the reaction you are expecting. xoxo