Nic - I'd have a non/alcoholic drink that looks like a drink if you don't want to say you've quit. Saying you've quit usually leads to people wanting you to drink. Drink out of the good ole Red Solo Cup and who's to know what's in it !
Good luck! Getting thru the party is fairly easy. We just had one of those family functions. Afterwards seemed to get more tough. Your mom can be a big support. My husband was a big support as he isn't drinking either. I actually enjoyed not drinking at our function. We both are known as enjoying our drink too. I could almost feel eyebrows rising!!!
Thanks for all the posts!
Livvy !