It may sound a little twisted, but I am glad when AH and I are flat broke, like now. As long as we have food to get by and the kids have diapers. We literally only have a few bucks in the checking account so that means he can't buy beer
Imagine this same scenario once he adds cocaine to his addiction. Usually that’s when the checking account goes negative and there are no diapers and food or money to buy any.
Plan B needs to be your work in progress.