Great posts.
I definitely was the drinks pusher, and still sometimes am. Not for myself of course, but for others. I think on some level I still equate alcohol with fun. Stupid I know but old habits die hard.
What a gift to see your friend in this whole new light. makes you wonder what other surprises are out there.
A dear friend of mine who is much braver than I, said she greets each day wondering what surprises it will be, and welcoming them.
Boy do I hope to get there.