You deserve the time to get your head straight. She has other options. She can stay where she is if she wants to get healthy. I'm sure by now you've heard the term quacking. When she starts in on her woe is me, you're so cruel trip, you don't even have to listen. The truth is, all she's saying is "quack, quack, quack." In fact, you can just picture a big duck, quacking above her head.