Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
Seems very clear 1) he isn't in recovery 2) he doesn't seem to acknowledge or empathize with your feelings or needs at all. Zero.
Doesn't sound like a recipe for success mama.
I'm coming to realize this. And if it's not this it will be something else in the future. 3 years ago when we were having issues he forbid me to go to my friend's Bachelorette party. He said he would do something stupid or divorce me. I still went and of course he didn't speak to me for days...I really thought he would change, that people change but I guess at the core people don't really change. Someone told me past patterns predict the future. Do you think so?