"There has been 0 effort on your part again since we talked on Saturday. Not even a text, extra hug or anything. I can't be the only one to make an effort. So I can't act like it's not upsetting to me and talk to you about your day, etc. I told you I love you and miss you but I'm human and I can't be the only one trying."
TRANSLATION: I can't believe you turned me down when I wanted to have sex. I don't care what YOUR reasons are, I'm still waiting to be serviced. Until such time I will continue to punish/manipulate you with the Silent Treatment and refuse to engage in any other meaningful grown up interactions. And I REALLY don't give a sh!t about YOUR day, or YOUR pain, or how YOU feel, those are completely irrelevant to MY needs.