RAH is still not speaking to me. Last night I mentioned my temporary crown came off and I was in pain. He said "okay". Nothing else. I went to bed without saying good night. Then this morning he mentioned I went to bed without saying good night. He asked me why and I told him I don't want to talk about it in front of the boys. Then he sends me this text on my way to work.
"There has been 0 effort on your part again since we talked on Saturday. Not even a text, extra hug or anything. I can't be the only one to make an effort. So I can't act like it's not upsetting to me and talk to you about your day, etc. I told you I love you and miss you but I'm human and I can't be the only one trying."
I don't even know how to respond to this. I understand his point of view but he still isn't accepting of my feelings. Why would I put an effort in when he isn't sensitive to my feelings and ignores me for 4 days? I'm confused
This is all because I told him I'm not ready to be intimate.