Hi Enfin, I feel the same. Things are a mess on the Homefront. OH keeps sending mean texts and when I respond, calmly and politely, he texts back "don't talk to me." Ugh. He's allowed to harass me via text but now I can't respond?? I guess he's coming here to get the baby and go back to his moms where he's been staying. She's out of town. Wish me luck on this exchange. Deep breaths. I know he will instigate me, but I have to keep my tongue in check so I don't say something I'll regret. What do I do? I truly can't stand him right now