Originally Posted by
rah555 
Day 18!! I'm starting to think my husband may resent the fact that I am not drinking. He's been in a foul mood lately, feeling sorry for himself complaining about how unimportant he feels and the fact that I don't want to go out at night so he has to go by himself. I am completely happy staying home, safe, sound and sober! Seems odd that his mood coincides with me not drinking. In previous cycles I would give in and go out to make him feel better, but I am not doing that this time. I do not want to fall back into the cycle. I am trying so hard!!
Well done Rah, sounds like a bit of resentment at the change and loss of his drinking partner but you're doing this for you first and foremost - good on you for standing firm tho and hope he comes round soon. It's not easy to deal with partners mood swings as well as ours but glad you're staying strong.