Originally Posted by
honeypig 
I'm so sorry for your loss, Bluehawaii. I'd like to second the thoughts from dandy's post, especially that last line.
I agree-you cannot allow her to hold you "hostage" for the rest of your life.
Stick to the move-out date as planned--if she wants treatment or therapy,
maybe support her in that but don't allow her to stay in your home.
She is an adult, and you cannot live her life for her or protect
her from her choices. She has a right to make them.
I'm very sorry for your niece's passing BH