I guess if he doesn't like it then he will start threatening divorce.
THINK about that statement....if he doesn't "get any" than it's time to DIVORCE? bit extreme eh? but i think it shines a harsh light on how he SEES you......and how stunted his emotional development is.
even if you caved, gave him what he "wanted" it wouldn't be enough...it wouldn't make everything ok......he'd find something else to be dissatisfied about, some other fault or failing of yours. and continue to punish you for not meeting his every need and demand.
addictive thinking is all about MORE.....reaching and grasping for the next THING that will fill the void. like pouring water thru a sieve. and that attitude doesn't stop when the drugs do.