Yep, because I'm probably confused in my own head. As for jumping the gun; I
Just meant with saying I love you, not that I have doubts about loving him. I know I love him. I also know we're both broken people with divorces under our belt. Neither one of us is perfect.
We seem to be good for each other today. Next month, next year, etc will just have to fall into place as time passes. I was just pointing out that I'm just as fallible as he is and maybe I bring my own red flags into a relationship? I'm trying to homestly look at both sides.