Originally Posted by SparkleKitty

Focus on you.

What are YOU feeling, what do YOU need, what is the best thing for YOU.

You will never be able to manage someone else's moods by doing or saying the "right" thing and you will destroy your own wellbeing if you try.

You are not responsible for his feelings. It is not your job to make him happy. You are responsible for YOU, and you alone, just like all other adults.