Originally Posted by
SparkleKitty 
You know what never helped anyone get better, ever? Shame and judgment. Please stop feeling guilty for not recovering fast enough for your husband. Please stop telling yourself it is your fault. Please stop letting his frustration railroad you into feeling like it is anything but perfectly normal that you don't trust him enough for intimacy right now. You deserve a partner you can trust who wants you to be the best you possible.
Cold shoulder this morning, no eye contact, one word answers. He is mad. Part of me wants to tell him I'm sorry and hug him but I'm feeling that's only encouraging his behavior??? If I do nothing he will tell me I don't even care. What am I suppose to do?