Originally Posted by
mamaof3boyz 
He just got angry and started yelling I haven't put it one effort to rebuild our marriage. That he is putting in every effort to work on himself and I'm doing nothing. .
That is typical addict-speak and manipulation. Doesn't matter that he's not using; that's only the
first step in recovery.
My disease is threefold: physical, emotional, and spiritual.
Once I started addressing all three areas, I began to
really start changing and healing.
Gentle hugs to you from Kansas.
