I found when I had that 5 years up it no longer bothered me to have people drinking around me (parties, etc) so long as they didn't behave like me when I was drinking at parties, get togethers etc. Invitations start to drop off. Understandably some people might need to maintain a 'dry house' but as I became more confident in my sobriety it did not bother me, but must say found myself leaving earlier.