How do you explain it?
I do worry about genetic alcoholism. My dad died from it and I have quit before the progression looks like a problem to others.
I was trying to explain to my adult son why I quit drinking, and trying to tell him to be aware of his own drinking as he ages. I said when I have a drink I always seem to want more. If we go out to dinner with another couple and have wine, when we get home I always want another. I'm sure my friends go home and they are done. He said it sounds like I just need to practice discipline. The more I tried to explain it the more he didn't get it. He is a young adult and seems to drink socially and modestly.
I guess the conversation is not necessary...yet. Argh.