whereismyunicorn......I have observed, over the years,.....like what Lexie alluded to-----that jelousy (where unwarranted) is a particularly troubling red flag---
it seems to be fueled by some very deep-seated issues....the need to control or posess another, combined with a low self-esteem.
These are the kinds of issue that require a long time of focused work/therapy to overcome.....
I'm just saying......
dandylion