ok, I understand what you mean, but if there is basically no relationship there to begin. As I've said, they are people I have seen very little in my life. We live in different places. Have nothing in common except for blood.
I acted out of order and apologised profusely - that apology was accepted and I was told to forget about it and was thanked for apologising.
I know what you mean about going that bit extra but what would you say if someone asked you if there was anything else they could do?
I feel bad enough as it is, and explained to them how much this has affected me - they know the apology is genuine. I dont want to feel worse by thinking I should be asking if there is anything more I can do when everyone told me just to forget about it.