Sorry to hear about your daughter's troubles BlueFairy. It must be very hard for you at this time. We have a similar situation in my family with one if my sisters. I guess acceptance is the hardest part. You can only change what is in your hand to change. My heart goes out to you.
Toots, I totally understand what you are talking about here. The reasons why you have decided to live your life without alcohol in it are really only your concern. People don't get it sometimes so they'll have to continue not getting it. It won't do them any harm. I was asked on New Year's Eve if I was still off the drink and how long I planned to go on like that. I just said I'm good and happy as I am right now and time will tell but I really hope with all my heart that I never drink again. It can only do harm. Do I need another reason?
Have a great day everyone!