Hi zigzagging, you can do this. I also live with a husband that drinks, every evening, 7 days a week. All of our friends drink. It doesn't make for the easiest environment in which to quit, but it can be done. My last drink was 9-22-14. In an ideal world, there wouldn't be alcohol in my house and it wouldn't be in my face everyday. But it doesn't bother me at all anymore, and we'll, its not a perfect world.