AnonWife.......Yes, since most of the folks here in this Forum are closely allied with Al-Anon, your assumption/misunderstanding that folks here would understand.......perhaps your question would be better suited for.................:
Secular Connections for Friends and Family
Alternatives to 12 Step Recovery Support for Friends and Family of Alcohol and Substance Abusers. Discussion of Non 12 Step alternatives and recovery programs such as LifeRing, Smart, SOS, CBT, AVRT, and utilization of other non 12 Step tools for families, relatives, and friends whose lives have been affected by someone else's addiction
12 Step Programs are off topic for this forum and posts that negatively reference 12 Step programs will be removed
Even though not specified, CRAFT is often discussed.
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P.S. I have no problem with SMART, but as a recovered 'A,' I always get a chuckle out of CRAFT; it would never have worked on me to change my behaviors/my using, nor with any of my recovered friends with whom I've discussed it.