Ive been on this site a couple weeks but this was my firsr post to this particular forum. I assumed my question would be answered by women who are in a relationship using an approach like mine or something close.
Im not certain but it appears everyone who replied is in a different place. Going through a breakup, divorcing, already divorced, long time breakup.
If I had known this I would have phrased the question different,
Or is there more of a relationship forum here for people living with an active addict or alcoholic?
Regardless, your reply is more of what i was looking for except I guess I hoped people were talking more about their feelings.
No I dont want validation for using my approach at all. Im content although some people made interesting points. But I didnt even expect those kinds of replies.