Originally Posted by
amy55 
I think we all come at this looking at different point of views.
I looked at this, seeing my ex saying to me, "just get over it already" !!!!
Can look at it like he was really trying, but he did hurt here. And it seemed like he was looking for a pat on the back for doing well, and didn't really want to know how he hurt her.
I do agree with everyone here as to look at his next action.
amy
PS, is he going to go drink now? Not Ny's fault.
Some of the things that we have to listen to that come out of their mouths would make this seem like nothing. We aren't allowed to be upset, but they are, we need to be thick skinned, and they drink for any reason?
You've hit the nail on the head with that last point. I was sat open mouthed when he said he was leaving me because of that comment. God only knows the things he has said to me while drinking. I don't even repeat them to myself.