I think we all come at this looking at different point of views.
I looked at this, seeing my ex saying to me, "just get over it already" !!!!
Can look at it like he was really trying, but he did hurt here. And it seemed like he was looking for a pat on the back for doing well, and didn't really want to know how he hurt her.
I do agree with everyone here as to look at his next action.
amy
PS, is he going to go drink now? Not Ny's fault.
Some of the things that we have to listen to that come out of their mouths would make this seem like nothing. We aren't allowed to be upset, but they are, we need to be thick skinned, and they drink for any reason?