Originally Posted by Refiner

I really don't understand how ppl are saying Ny made a mistake and should apologize- she did nothing wrong IMO. He asked for her truth and accepted it AT THE TIME. Then threw it in her face THE NEXT DAY using it as the reason he's "leaving her" (I can almost guarantee he won't do this after he's done with his relapse or binge he's most certainly on). She wanted him to hit his rock bottom (as others have in the form of arrest, getting hurt, etc) so he would WANT to get help. If anyone needs to apologize it should HIM apologizing to Ny.