he wants the next soft place to land where he can keep doing EXACTLY what he wants without any rules, boundaries or ultimatums. since you said the word every addict hates - NO - he just went to the next known female he might be able to manipulate.
it is SO not personal. but it does expose how he views YOU....in the same way he does every other person on the planet....what can they do for HIM.
he's an active addict. who needs that??? seriously.