I could have written this post. I too, have been made to feel as though I am not enough, what an awful feeling when you're pouring every fiber of your being into someone just for them to still twist, squeeze and wring you like a wet rag to get another drop out of you. What's ironic is that I was always confident and outgoing, those things were taken from me and I became an emotionally abused, empty shell with no self esteem and identity. That's not spousal love, nor is it self love.
I'm so grateful so have found my way back to myself and I 'm still picking up more pieces of myself along the way every day.
Let's all promise to never let anyone or thing feed on us and make us feel less than what we KNOW we are. We are enough!