Actually this is quite common around this time of year where people wait until after the new year to get into rehab, after they have ruined Christmas and New Years. The bad part is right after the new year the waiting list to get into a rehab gets drastically longer. Many rehabs have sources/programs/information for the families of addicts. I would highly recommend checking into that so you can have an understanding of what addiction is, how it effects you, and how to set boundaries.