Good for you sticking to your guns, FarToGo!
Originally Posted by
FarToGo 
Now I'm guessing all sorts of things, she's worried about her drinking? She likes me better as a drunk? Sober folk are threatening?
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Guessing can be quite unrewarding.
Some people think that "only alcoholics drink alone". Or anything else.
If she likes you better when you are drunk , then she is not YOUR friend, but more of a friend of your addictive alter-ego.
I'd say drunk folks are way more threatening. Sober folks may be pain in the a$$$ of other people's delusions, but, oh well.
If she is your true friend, no way sobriety will stand in the way of your friendship.
Keep up good sobriety job.