I'm sorry Tufty. We've had a rough day as well. My OH's father died today. Unexpected. Heart attack. He and his dad were not close, in fact he did not speak to his dad anymore. His dad was not a very nice person to my OH when he was a child and young adult.
Still, it's sad and shocking.
Still sober, had a busy day. Gym, shopping, breakfast, sad news, then round 3 of picture taking of the kids! We could not seem to get it right. Finally my brother who knows a little about photography came over with his camera and got a couple usable pics haha. Not easy with a 7 month old and a 4 y.o. with special needs lol