Originally Posted by
TacoTruckHeaven 
Thank you for going back through those posts and pulling this out, because this is the main thing I'm struggling with even NOW as I am feeling hugely relieved that things are moving toward divorce. I keep wondering if I could have or should have done more. My parents keep suggesting that his actions are the result of my not being warm toward him. God, I needed to read this! Thank you!
Dear Taco
I am sorry your parents can't be more supportive. It just is what it is.
I know this is a really tough time for you. You are faced this month of either living with your alcoholic or your non-supportive parents.
BELIEVE me, it gets better. A year ago today, I was faced with either a crazy landlady or my alcoholic mate unless I went to a hotel.
Today, I have my own peaceful place with a warm kitty cat and a fireplace. My place is all decorated for Christmas.
I am still rebuilding my life. I know that this time next year, I will be better than this year.
Hang in there and keep coming back!