We are very self-centered people and those first three steps are very self centered.....step 4 helps us with humility (not humiliation, but humility) and step 5 helps us to begin to be other-centered......get to step 7....keep moving forward and reach out to the person with less time than you or even that person with more time and who needs someone to talk with or to have someone ask about them......begin to be useful to others.....
With hugs and love,
~SB