Maybe start some new threads or post a bit in other ones. As I respond to other people, I'm constantly making new discoveries about myself.
Glad you checked back in, Spalding. I'd strongly second Lexie's recommendation. It seems that those who really learn, grow and heal are those who reach out to others. Taking that intense laser focus off of our own little corner of the world and looking around can let in a whole ton of new insights and happiness.
Keep on working!