Old 12-04-2015, 06:45 PM
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It is not so much a trust issue as a control issue. Something to reflect on anyway.
in my case, yes, that is so.
this is something i had to tease out while going through that process. the person is entirely trustworthy, but not under my control to respond when i want as i want.
bummer

it's been really beneficial for me to see that being able to trust a person isn't contingent on them performing to my specifications.
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