JoeCree

I think youre going to have to give ur husband time on this one. And there is no limit. Its out of your hands now and all you can do is work on urself. If wants to talk then talk, if he asks a question then answer honestly. You will find with time that things will sort themselves out for the better as long as you remain sober.
I may be lost in translation somewhere but when you first explained ur story i thought you had slept with the guy, which would have been more difficult to rectify. As it stands i think your husband will be able to forgive you on this one, as long as you can show you are going to change. And start anew.