I have an update. He called me just now. He was not sober. His mom's boyfriend, who is a jerk and lives with her, called the police on him twice and he ended up in ER two times. Our insurance isn't that good and apparently not much will be covered. I know he's alive at least, but he's sick as hell.
When this happened 4 years ago I vowed that if this happened again I'd divorce. We separated, so I am already not liable for him financially, but now I am scared to do it. I am scared because we have a child. I don't know how I will handle that. I am scared he will continue drinking. I have nobody to leave my child with so can't go to a meeting. My family is very unsupportive and has been very angry with me since I didn't divorce him the first time.
I'm so scared. I need to know everything will be ok with me and my child. I'm just feeling so low now.