I gave my then husband many of these letters....too many. Always hoping he would see the light. My Codie-ness made me yell at him-what the F is wrong with you?! How could you do (insert anything here) to me or your daughter?! How could you tell your wife that she is no good and always will be less than your mom and sister? Ugh-truly it was my attempt to rationalize with an irrational person and was usually met with a blank stare, fake tears and remorse, and more promises to change (that never happened). It is what it is....but it's very good to get it out-the anger, hurt, betrayal....I know those feelings well. But in time you won't feel the need to defend, explain, try to make him see-you won't care-bc you will have found a peace that is priceless.
Peace to you
