For me what I have learned about myself is that I do everything to the extreme. When it comes to setting goals for myself I have to set attainable goals because if I see or feel that i am not suceeding to my satisfaction I say f it. I have to keep in mind how important is it right now in my life. Will I still be able to do the things I need to do to take care of myself. Because with more responsibility comes more stress and sometimes less time for me. So I have to way the pros and cons of each situation and put things into perspective. Remember anything I place before my sobriety I will surely lose.
Lauren