I really respect all your opinions (I read here several times a week
) - and appreciate the feedback.
I'm more confident than I used to be but when I have friction with someone or disagree with them I feel really uncomfortable. I automatically assume I said it wrong, or it's my fault, or I'm making a big deal out of nothing.
The other kid's mom is super toxic and dysfunctional. Years ago we were friendly, but by the grace of God she chose to spend time with people even more toxic than me, so we were not super close.
I am so thankful for recovery because it helps me see things a little more clearly. Her response to my concerns was to deflect and blame me (for my approach) rather than address the issue - her kid's serious social and behavioral issues and pattern of violence.
Anyway, thank you for helping me think through this!!