sponsorship
dump you can't make anyone drink you can't make anyone get better you're on a life-and-death errand find a sponsor who has taken the steps and has what you want.... as a sponsor we have one responsibility to guide and other alcoholic through the steps so they can do likewise nothing else if we become friends afterwards wonderful the support group is where you can bitch wine moan and complain English helpful advice a sponsor is not a relationship expert on marriage counselor bank...... want to know something else the word sponsee doesn't even exist in any dictionary anywhere this idea of sponsorship has gotten watered down they take people hostage want to be in control because they're full of fear selfishness and ego this process helps us to be God dependent our own conception of God not people dependent read the middle of page 98 in the bottom of 99 top of 100 not being people dependent but God dependence