Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
then why don't you just forgive him and get on with it?
obviously i am missing the purpose of your query, so i'm just gonna bow out. be well.
I did forgive him, I have forgiven him many times over for many things. My thread was not based on him and this "text" with another woman, it was simply used with other examples to show the sense of entitlement or hypocrisy that my AH tends to have (as most A's do). The entire thread was mainly about the passive aggressive behavior he exhibits, one minute he understands and then the next he's making me feel guilty for the decisions I make for myself and my children.
Thank you for all your wisdom, very much appreciated!