I agree, I think that is the general vibe I'm getting. However I am concerned with 1 person picking and choosing their truth. Not respecting boundaries. May have been motivated to go into AA to win me back and not allow anyone else to have me etc etc. Which is never going to happen and I don't want to be with anyone for a long time. So I will be prepared to sue worst case scenario. Hopefully it wont come to that. I just need to make sure I'm strong enough. Thank you for your time